What Makes a Man Rich?

by Dan on February 21, 2010

I suppose I should give James Arthur Ray some royalties if this blog ever starts bringing in the big bucks.  He’s been a rather large source of content since the Sedona sweat lodge incident, and even before then, when I saw him give a speech.

An interesting news story circulated this week, regarding the case.  As you may have read, James Ray is being held on $5 million bail.

If you’re like me, you were expecting he’d just plop it down and have some relaxation on the Carlsbad, California beach while preparing for his trial.  After all, he owns a $4 million house, sells tons of products, and holds very lucrative seminars at close to $10,000 a head.

Not so much.

According to the recent news reports, http://ktar.com/?nid=6&sid=1265206, James Ray actually has a negative net worth of $4.2 million.  Considering how many assets he owns and how much money he has coming in, this means he must be in a crushing amount of debt.

I know there’s the possibility he’s actually much richer than this and is hiding his assets from a slew of incoming lawsuits, but let’s put that issue aside for now.  Let’s assume he’s telling the truth.

If he really is millions of dollars in debt, does that mean he was lying about his wealth?  After all, he did regularly use his money as a credibility point in his seminars and products.

When discussing another speaker on The Secret at the free talk I attended, he said “This guy was talking about how great it was that he could manifest a parking spot on demand.  Really… parking spots?  I have a $4 million house!”

I thought at the time he was just mentioning his house on the fly, but it turns out he was telling just about everyone and their mothers about his new crib.

Additionally, he was proud to mention his inclusion in the Inc. 500, as well as his company’s annual revenue of $10 million.  http://www.inc.com/inc5000/2009/company-profile.html?id=200904790

Now he’s in handcuffs and not only is the (admittedly large) bail too much for him to pay, but his lawyers are saying, “Despite misconceptions perpetrated in the media, Mr. Ray is not a man of significant assets and certainly not the millions reported in the press.”

It seems very contradictory, of course, but I’m going to suggest you consider an alternative: that he’s broke AND rich at the same time.

How is that possible?

The more you get into the business world, the more you see that wealth is not so easily definable.  It’s not “How much money do you make?” or even “How much money do you have?”

Wealth comes in three dimensions:

1.    Net Worth
2.    Cash Flow Amount (or Income)
3.    Cash Flow Automation

James Ray’s lawyers are, for the benefit of their client, defining wealth by Number 1.  If you look at how much money James Ray has and subtract from it how much he owes, he’s clearly one of the poorest people in the United States.

Donald Trump was once $1 billion in personal debt.  It wasn’t his company in debt, but his personal debt to creditors.  A story of his is how during this hard time, he walked by a homeless person and thought “This man is $1 billion richer than I am.”

If you didn’t feel compelled to pity Mr. Trump in that story, you’re not alone.  The fact is that while on paper he was broke, he still had a ton of toys and money in the bank to use for whatever he wanted.  He didn’t have to live in a tiny apartment in the ghetto or switch to eating top ramen at night.

The same is with James Ray.  How can you be broke and still have money to spend?

Cash flow.

If you have money coming in on a regular basis, you can still maintain your lifestyle.  It’s why young lawyers can be $100k in debt in student loans and still live in the nice part of New York City.

In fact, I’d say wealth is important ONLY in how it affects your lifestyle.  I don’t think debt is a good thing to build up, but the fact is that utilizing debt, while having enough cash flow coming in can allow you to live as a richer person than your bank statement would say.  If you’re not stressed from the debt and not being irresponsible to the point that it’ll catch up with you, there really is no functional difference.

When someone leases a car to you, sells a TV, or rents a house out, all they care is if you’ll be able to pay the bill on time (or if they’re a Credit Card company, they actually hope you won’t).  Money coming in consistently gives you all the credibility you need when making a purchase.

There is a third dimension of wealth that most people overlook, which is the automation of the cash flow.  James Ray is quickly finding out how easily your income can stop once you’re unable to personally run your business.  While Ray probably does make a good deal of money off his products and book sales, I’m betting most of his revenue comes from his live events.  In a typical year, he’s on the road almost every week, teaching his philosophy to large groups of people paying $800 each, and small groups of people paying $10,000 each.

That’s tough to do behind bars.

This example is actually a bit tainted because there’s such a stigma attached to his inactivity that his product sales will, no doubt, decline.

Let’s say he was hospitalized from a skiing accident instead, and couldn’t go on the road.  His product sales would now be the main source of revenue.  Depending on what percentage of his income the products brought in, he could actually be ok.  This is because product sales can be automated, with Ray not being there.

The third dimension of wealth, automation, is becoming more talked about lately.  Tim Ferris wrote a great book called the “Four Hour Workweek,” in which he discusses the ways of automating your income so you can take long vacations, or simply just expand your free time.

There are few things more liberating than knowing that no matter what happens to you, your money will still come in.  The main ways it can work this way is for artistic royalties, hands-off businesses, or investments.  It’s an issue that really paints how “rich” doctors, lawyers and executives actually are slaves to their salaries or contracts.  If a doctor stops operating, the money stops.  In fact, for much of a doctor or lawyer’s career, if he decides he wants to work 40 hours a week instead of 60-80, he could be out of a job altogether.  If you’re on a salary AT ALL, then no matter how much money you’re making, it still stops the moment you leave the job.

Of course, you can use these jobs to build enough net worth to put into hands-off businesses and investments that WILL bring you the passive income.

Ideally, you’ll be rich in all three areas.  To be honest, having $50,000 coming in a year with no work sounds better than $100,000 coming in a year with a full work week.  You have to pick what your priorities are.  Just make sure to not get hung up on any one aspect of wealth as you increase your money power.

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How Important is Reputation?

by Dan on February 19, 2010

I’ve been wanting to write about this subject for a while.

I have a strong opinionated friend who’s been meaning to get into the blogosphere and speak his mind.  He’s got a lot to say, and has some very unique reference experience that would make his viewpoint very valuable.

So why is he not blogging?

It’s not laziness, success barriers, or deservedness issues.  This time it’s something simple:  reputation protection.

“If I start writing about something too controversial, and the public doesn’t like it, my reputation is ruined.  I won’t be able to find a job and will be outcast socially.”

These thoughts are not illogical, and certainly not uncommon.  In fact, they’re even partially true.

However, the idea of actually ruining your reputation is scarcely a threat.   Let me explain why:

1)    Reputation is Niche-Specific

Your reputation management depends precisely on what your goals are.  If you want to succeed in a bureaucracy like the District Attorney’s Office, the public school system, the FBI, or a Fortune 500 company, then yes, your reputation does matter.  Because bureaucratic organizations are so large and extensive, each individual member has strikingly small power to make a difference.  This leads to one thing:  RULES.  Hard and fast, the organization is loaded with red tape.  If you have a marijuana conviction, you’re out.  If there’s a sexual harassment complaint out of the office, you’re out.

Anyone out of those organizations, however, knows that the rules are much more flexible in smaller entities.  There might not be a drug test, and even if you have a recent murder conviction, the CEO can make a judgment call to hire you.

And we all hear cases of unpunished scandal.  If you are well liked enough, there’s enough wiggle room to get through it.

Now, as I was alluding to before, what are your goals?  If it’s to be rich, powerful, and well liked, then there’s very little you can do to ruin it.  Oh you can be blackballed from plenty of organizations, but if you are good at what you do, there will always be someone welcoming you with open arms.

This brings me to my second point:

2)    Value Overrides All

It works in dating, business, friendship, and just about anything else.  If you are bringing enough value to the table, there’s little that can’t be forgiven,

[Mild Avatar Spoiler Alert]

One of my favorite scenes in Avatar is when Jake Sully makes his return to Pandora to reconcile with the Na’vi.  They have lost all faith in him, as he has not been truthful with them, and has led to them being in danger of total destruction.  Even his girlfriend Neytiri is done with him

How does he solve this?

He rides in on a red dragon named Toruk.

That’s it.

No explanation, but all is forgiven.  Neytiri is back in his arms, and it’s all well and good.

Call it aggravating as a plot device, but it sure as hell is realistic.  No matter what you’ve done, if you can ride a red dragon no one else can tame, then you’re someone that’s wanted.  Neytiri no doubt knew that the rest of the women would be enthralled to take the Toruk rider if she wasn’t down for Sully anymore.

[End Spoiler]

Do we have real life Toruks?  Yes.

  • Michael Jackson was widely considered to be a child molester, yet still sold millions of albums after the scandal.  In fact, his Neverland Ranch for children still had customers!  If you’re the King of Pop, there’s a lot you can get away with.
  • Kevin Trudeau has served jail time for credit card scams and identity theft.  He’s also been fined many times for fraudulently promoting supplements, as well as selling customer information to junk mailers and blatantly lying about his products on the air.  However, he still makes millions of dollars off his books, and is not at a loss for supporters.
  • Ann Coulter publicly declares evolution to be a liberal conspiracy to remove God from America. She has been caught lying numerous times (Go to Borders and read her Slander book next to Al Franken’s Lies and the Lying Liars who Tell Them, and see for yourself.)  If she’s backed into a corner for saying something offensive, she’s known to respond with nonsensical answers, such as “The word ‘faggot’ isn’t offensive to gays.”  She’s been dropped by several publications for her behavior.  Even with this, she can book herself solid for both publications and speaking engagements years in advance.
  • David Icke is a conspiracy theorist who claims the world is secretly run by shapeshifting lizards from the constellation Draco (including George W. Bush).  He still sells tons of books, and has a large following of supporters and listeners.

Check out the Wikipedia entries for any of these characters.  There are cited sources for all of these allegations.

My point here is that as long as you confidently stand your ground and can make people money, or simply provide a service someone is looking for, your reputation is a non-issue.  Maybe 88%  of the world thinks you’re a sick jackass, and 11% doesn’t know you exist.  That remaining 1% can still fill your pocketbooks and provide you a free place to stay in any major city in the world.

Are there people ruined by reputational errors?  Of course.  O.J. Simpson’s popularity has never recovered.  It’s tough to get off the hook for (allegedly) murdering your ex-wife.

Ted Haggard is another man ruined by public exposure.  However, I think had his choices been different, he still would have been successful, in at least some area.  As I’ve said reputation is niche specific.  If you’re a man of the church and caught sleeping with other men, then your time at the pulpit is over, at least in conservative circles.  However, once he was exposed, he could have said “You know what, I’m proud of what I did.  I think homosexuality is approved by God and even supported by the New Testament!”  From there on, liberal Christians who want to believe that homosexuality is compatible with the Bible would treat him as a hero.

Note that I don’t think that imagined quote makes much sense, nor would this be an easy transition to make.  However, I do think his public image could have been salvaged.  His problem was that he admitted his errors and sought forgiveness and redemption for betraying his community.  If you want to transcend reputation, you can’t be intimidated by public disapproval, which he most certainly was.

In the end, as long as you’re good at what you do, and say what you believe in, you can rest assured that your life will be fine regardless of public scrutiny.  If you’re an obvious charlatan, then well, make sure you’re extremely talented.

–Dan

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Osho: The Guru of Choice

February 18, 2010 Uncategorized

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Putting Peace & Productivity Up Front

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The Fall of James Ray – What Went Wrong?

February 14, 2010 Uncategorized

It’s a little odd seeing James Ray walk around in handcuffs and an orange jumpsuit.  When I saw him speak this past summer, he was standing tall, proud, and full of confidence that he was on the way to the top.
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Denial of Escape – Your Key to Productivity

February 13, 2010 Uncategorized

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It’s times like this when it’s [...]

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Hiding Your Great Ideas

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“So what kind of internet marketing do you do?”  Brian, the 22 year old college student said to me at the coffee shop.
I told him I did pay per click, SEO, affiliate management, the works.  He said “I’m starting up this project…” and was hoping for some advice.
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Dealing with the Ups and Downs of the Diet

January 31, 2010 Uncategorized

So I’d love to begin this article with this proud statement: I’ve been on the Huge in a Hurry Diet/Workout plan for two months, have gained 10 pounds of solid muscle, and am showing my six pack off to everyone who will doesn’t mind staring at a stranger’s stomach.
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